Date Ideas

You only live once, let’s make it count

Let’s live– like, really live.

Dates with an “*” are prioritized and incentivized.

“Great company makes for great experiences. And great experiences make for a great life.”

Need more inspiration? Scroll to the bottom of the page for my date inspo gallery.


An NYC Rooftop bar

Cedar Local (Financial District- unassuming, warmly lit, cozy, creative cocktails)

Refinery Rooftop (Bryant Park)

Whitby Bar (Midtown)

Drinks and live jazz at Bemelmans Bar (Upper East Side)

King Cole Bar (Midtown East)

Some NYC hole in the wall


Favorites: seafood- shrimp, scallops, octopus, oysters, *caviar, lamb chops, steak & wagyu beef, ox tail, soup & ramen, sushi / omakase, lobster mac and cheese, rabbit, duck. Know where to find the best of one of these? Let’s go!

I love fine dining, especially at tasting-menu restaurants. I also appreciate authentic, hole-in-the-wall restaurants with great chefs and few frills. Shall we flirt and get to know each other over an exquisite, shared meal? It’s one of my favorite ways to build connection and chemistry. I have a very sensual relationship to food and find delicious food, and even just reading through a menu, to be a powerful aphrodisiac.

A List of 50 of the Best NYC Restaurants – let’s see how many of these we can knock off!

Lunch at Balthazar

Dirt Candy – absolutely delicious vegetarian tasting-menu

ABC by Jean-Georges – great vegetarian menu

Tatiana by Kwame Onwuachi – One of the newest and most popular restaurants in NYC. It’s tough to get a reservation but 10000x worth the effort. I went once and regularly day dream about going back to this Caribbean fine dining gem. Make my wish come true?

Huso (Upper East Side, Madison Ave, 8-course tasting menu with each course complemented with caviar)

Per Se (Columbus Circle- 3 Michelin star tasting menu that changes daily) *

Nobu (Downtown) – trendy and sexy vibes

The Grill at The Pool (Midtown East)

Caviar Russe (Midtown East- also has a bar) – I loveee caviar and this place has a great selection, and wonderful, inventive caviar dishes

Blue Hill (Tarrytown) *

Sushi Nakazawa (West Village) *

Crown Shy – located Downtown, inside one of my favorite hotels, with delectable food


Let’s keep things spicy with these unique activities. There is so much to do in the city and this is just a small glimpse at what we can explore together. As you can see, I lean toward the performing arts. But, I am incredibly open minded and simply love trying new things. So if you have another idea, hit me.

Spa day at Aire Ancient Baths or Spa de la Mer

Cirque Du Soleil

Watch burlesque and aerial theatrics at Company XIV in Brooklyn

Sip n’ Paint

Go to the New York City Ballet

Movie night at one of iPic’s couples booths with food and drink service

Catch a show on Broadway (Moulin Rouge, Wicked, Harry Potter, Phantom of the Opera) 

An evening of laughter at the Comedy Cellar or Gotham Comedy Club

Helicopter ride over NYC

A weekend in the Hamptons 

Karaoke night 

Checkmate Swingers Club for my fellow wild ones

A night of debauchery at The Box*

A fantastic meal at Duane Park followed by their burlesque show

Reggae and soca dancing at Negril NYC

Rent an Airbnb and cook a meal together (you do dinner, I do dessert, or we do both together with some tunes in the background and intermittent kisses)


This list reflects my love for water, scenic nature views, and medieval history. On vacation with me, there’s never a dull moment. Just euphoria, serenity, and ecstasy.

Jetskiing somewhere with nice blue waters

Cabo San Lucas, Mexico

A gorgeous cabin in Upstate New York

Vietnam- Cu Chi Tunnel Tours *

Overwater bungalows in the Maldives or Bora Bora *

See the Blue Lagoon in Iceland, stay at the Retreat Hotel, and see the Northern Lights *

Palace of Versailles, France *

Mary Queen of Scots tour in Scotland and Edinburgh Castle *

Medici Tour in Florence *

Venice Simplon-Orient Express *

Wine tasting in Napa Valley

Camel Riding in Dubai

Skiing in Colorado *

Seychelles Islands *